Tossing & Turning
If you’re the parent of a newly-diagnosed child, the “who’s”, “how’s”, and what ifs” will definitely be keeping you up at night. A million questions churn through our minds as we contemplate a different life than the one we expected. It takes time and processing for us to realise that while our parenting journey may […]
Beware the Bullshit
When you become a special needs parent, many things don’t make sense to you until you begin to realise what your unique trajectory is. Your baby isn’t having expected responses to certain things, or isn’t feeding happily, or sleeping well. And as time passes, you begin to pick up that they’re not hitting milestones as […]
Sisyphus
The Greek myth goes that Sisyphus was condemned by Zeus to roll a massive boulder up a hill, only to have it roll to the bottom again once he got it to the top. Sisyphus had angered the gods with his hubris, cheating death, and causing a big kerfuffle. But it’s not his crime I […]
Throw Out the Baby Book
I almost named my website, “That’s Not What I Ordered”, because that’s what ran through my mind when I became a new mom! Just a giggle really, but true nonetheless. A close friend of mine had had a super low-maintenance baby girl, who was sleeping fully through the night by her fourth week, three weeks […]
Not Special
I don’t believe autism is a gift or a curse. It just… is what it is. I believe it’s genetic and not as random as some might suppose. But I also believe that despite that, it’s still a roll of the dice at the time of conception. Many families are made up of both neurotypical […]
Correct Terminology
Before you become an autism parent, you have no idea how much words matter. Learning and using correct terminology is so important, not just for parents but for your extended family and friends as well. A throwaway comment can sting and stay with you for a lot longer than anyone may realise. But it can […]
Silent Reflux
Aidan’s earliest symptom of silent reflux, was evident on the day we got home from Life Kingsbury Hospital. He was three days old. I had popped him down in his brand new bassinet and my brother-in-law observed that he had hiccups. In new-mom-mode, I looked up whether or not that was normal and it didn’t […]
The Antenatal Group
Our fertility journey to the conception of our son, was a long and winding road, full of highs and lows. I discuss this journey in more detail in a subscriber-only blog called “Clouds & Rainbows”. Our birth story was also quite adventuresome, and that is further detailed in another subscriber-only blog called “The Big Entrance”. […]
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“Welcome to Holland”
Nobody expects to become a special needs parent. Though we are all compassionately aware of people with disabilities within our communities, we never imagine that we might too, one day, count our own child among them. All of us have dreams of what our future family might look like; of the things we will ensure […]